Losing a Friend

On Saturday, November 19, 2011, my grandmother's birthday in whom I lost 6 years ago, I lost a friend. His name is Briant Rowe. Although there were many people closer to him then I, my heart sunk at the news and it was very difficult to recover. If not for the help and strength my friends have given me, I would not be able to handle this situation.

Briant Rowe can be described in many words. My most vivid memories of him come from our discussions revolving around religion. He was a passionate speaker and knew much about the topics he believed in. There were subjects we disagreed on, yet it was useful conversation and informative to me. Briant also always had jokes to crack, whether they be on me or my sisters. He was a very spiritual, laughable and fun loving person.

The majority of my relationship with Briant stemmed from his relationship with my sister. I now regret not taking more time to get to know him as a person for myself. Seeing the love poured out for him at such a great extent from his family, friends and loved ones, I realize I missed out on getting to know someone who may have changed my life.

I write this post not only to brag about how great my friend was and the incredible influence he had on so many people while he graced the earth with his presence, but I also write to urge all readers to live each day as if it were to be your last. This is the day you will meet your Maker. We are so accustomed to cliche sayings such as "tomorrow is not promised." However, it is a true statement indeed. I truly believe Briant was well versed with his Maker, that he was still learning but was very aware of how blessed he truly was. I also write to urge all readers not to take any moment in life for granted. Live out your life to the fullest, get to know everyone around you on a deeper level and build stronger relationships, live each day to love, don't live a life that consists if judging and conflict starting and most important, don't hold grudges. Never let the sun set on your anger. If you have a problem with someone, resolve it before you rest your head. Forgiving and forgetting is not easy, but Jesus did it for us.

I miss Briant Rowe. I never told him, but I love him, as a person and as a friend. The minimal number of conversations and times we had together lead me to understand what kind of person he was. Briant was not perfect, as nobody is. Yet his bright spirit and influential personality and kind heart has shined so strongly through those who he has left behind, it is clear that he was and still is a true motivation.

To Briant Rowe, I pray that you and your father's names are written in the book of life and for now, you are resting peacefully until that day you will be called home. I pray also that I will see you again in the Kingdom. I will give you a nice big hug and hopefully be able to get to know you then. I am praying for your family and friends who are still trying to accept your passing. They are strong and God is with them. Thank you for what you taught me and the time I had with you. I love and miss you. Until then...

:)